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  • June 08, 2021 4:50 PM | Dan Nelson

    I’m reminded of the old country song, “Mama, Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys.” Do you really want your children to grow up to become artists? Lots and lots of people really don’t! Why do we have such a bad rep? A couple weeks ago, I wrote a blog called “The Best Part About Being An Artist.” It’s only fair that I should opine in the opposite direction, so here are a few thoughts in the negative column:


    We’re skilled, we’re hard working, we’re conscientious . . . So we’re sitting ducks for the dark virus of perfectionism. 

         Let's get one thing straight— Many people conflate perfectionism with excellence. Anybody who does excellent work looks like a perfectionist in a culture filled with mediocrity, but a perfectionist is someone who is never satisfied with their work

         It's easy to fall into this trap. Perfectionism often hits when we look at the work of a “better artist” (and there are always plenty of those!) In fact, job growth for us pretty much requires that we look at artists who are better than us. So there are two ways we can respond to this: get inspired or get depressed. The healthy response is obvious . . . but not always so easy to do. We have to train ourselves to use other people's work as an inspiration, but NOT as a comparison, in the strict sense of the word. We have to keep reminding ourselves that every one of us is as unique as a fingerprint. Our job is to fill our little slot in the cosmos the best we can.  And learn to enjoy the process. 


    Artists are universally characterized as “sensitive.” I resisted this idea for many years, simply because I hated the thought of being a wimp . . . or worse, yet — a cry-baby! But I finally had to admit that it is true: artists ARE more sensitive than non-artists . . .  because we LITERALLY SEE what others DON’T! (Good news! Authors are worse than us!!) Artists are simply more attuned to the outside world. Better artists are even more attuned! Alas, that means we are usually sensitive in other ways, too. I think it has helped me just to admit that I’m sensitive . . . and ask myself if I’d rather be one of the “blind” ones? Heck, no! So I’ll take to bad with the good . . . (and try to do all my crying in private!)


         Okay . . . this blog just went from interesting to mean! How do you get the artist off your front porch? Yeah— pay for the dang pizza! (Actually, that is an old musician joke, so, see? We’re not the only ones with this reputation!) I’ve heard several successful artists say “If you want to be a good artist, major in business!” But, frankly, I’m not sure even that would do the job. We are ALL so different. I think a lot of this has to do with coming to peace with “the way God made you,” if I can use that traditional terminology. Many years ago I had a friend who said “Nobody’s everybody!” and that has really stuck with me— and more and more as I get older. 

    I’m sure there are other “bad” things about being an artist, but I can’t think of any at the moment. Go ahead and share with us some that you think about.

    In the meantime, 

    Happy Painting!


  • May 28, 2021 11:48 AM | Dan Nelson

    First, let me say, that I KNOW that for some (many?) of you, making money from your art is not a high priority, so I apologize for a Blog Post that really doesn’t apply to you. BUT— you might know somebody it DOES apply to, AND you might just be curious to “see how the other half lives.” 

    9 Steps to Making Money with Your Art

    1. Learn how to paint. (Duh.)

    Study, practice, repeat.

    2. Develop a BODY of work.

    This may be the single  most important piece of advice on this list. Nobody cares what you can paint. They care what you can paint over and over and over. Any ONE of your paintings can only be evaluated (and priced!) against the backdrop of a BODY of work. How much is “a Body”? I don’t know . . . at least 20 paintings all in a same-ish style. THIS is where that ubiquitous bit of advice is on-the-mark: Develop a style

    3. Paint for free.

    We all have to start somewhere. Do paintings for family, friends, fundraisers . . . 

    4. Paint for cheap.

    After you've done it FREE for awhile, try to get into a local coffee shop or restaurant . . . 

    5. Market, Market, Market . . . 

    Here’s the life of a working artist in the world we live in:

    • Paint • Post • Paint • Post • Paint • Post . . .  

    Social Media is the MAIN marketing tool these days: Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Etsy, Fine Art America, etc.

    6. Build a website.

    I know a LOT of people ONLY have social media marketing. Somebody has to tell you this, and I’ll be that somebody: When I see an artist with ONLY social media presence, it screams “beginner” / “amateur” / “perennial hobbyist.” Sure, it’s a pain in the neck to learn new stuff, but everybody can build a website these days, and that’s what you need to do. Consider the learning curve as part of your “staving-off-dimentia” strategy. There are lots of options: Wix, Square Space, Network Solutions, Web.com; and if you’re a Mac person— Sparkle. And don't forget to make it mobile-friendly.

    7. Set yer bum down in yer chair and develop your signature!

    As you may already know, this is one of my perennial rants. 


    A) Initials Only

    (“I’m such a nobody I don’t really want anybody to know who did this. Come to think of it, I’m not sure I deserve to breathe.” )

    B) Making in inscrutable scrawl.

    (“It’ll be like the mark of Zorro! I’ll be SO famous, they will swoon when they see it!”)

    C) Using a bristle brush.

    (Use a good sable brush— like Winsor Newton Series 7. Also— NO markers!)

    D) Signing your paintings the way you sign your checks.

    (You’ve got to “Disney-fy it a little bit!)

    8. Design a really cool business card.

    You're an artist! Your business card had better look like it! Put some of your work on it-- at least on one side.

    9. Believe you're awesome until you really are. 

    You've GOT TO manifest an air of competence. Not arrogance . . . Just a professional "I got this" attitude.

    Truly— this is one of those areas in life where you have to fake it til you make it. 

    Hope that helps! And, yes, I did every one of these things at various stages in my career. 

    Tell us what you would add— or subtract!

    In the meantime . . . forget about selling!

    Happy PAINTING!



  • May 28, 2021 10:45 AM | Dan Nelson


    I remember being in grad school— I was in my early-to-mid 30’s with a wife and two kids and a full-time job. (“Why, O WHY didn’t I do this back when I was single, footloose, and carefree?”)--  In that season I often had to decide between getting an “A” in life, and getting a “B” in some classes. Looking back, I sometimes made the right decision. I got some B’s . . . But my wife and kids still liked me. It turns out this was preparing me for a lifetime of hard choices.

    I’m assuming most people reading this are artists . . . or wanna-be artists, at least. One of your aspirations is to create some GOOD art. You could say you would like to give yourself an “A” on your next painting. You will derive a certain degree of satisfaction if you do. I know the feeling.

    I am learning that there are two ways to pursue this joy-in-excellent-art feeling. The most common way is to “Hook-it-up, get-it-on, Git to work & git ‘er done.”—Work you butt off grinding and hacking away at a task until it’s finished. You can often give yourself an “A” when you pursue  your projects this way. Then you can experience the rush of satisfaction that comes from a job well done. Not to be nosey, but you might also ask “But how did everybody else in my life fare while I was being— Ta-da-DAH!!— SUPER-PAINTER? When you finally stagger out of your studio, did you get an A in life? Or just in painting?

    I think there is a slightly different way to do this— Instead of striving TOWARD perfection and the happiness that follows, we could— conceivably, at least— start out by getting in touch with our satisfaction FIRST, and then work from that place of peace. 

    Some of you are thinking, “O no! He’s gone full-ZEN on us!” . . . But I really am trying to keep my weirdness fairly mid-range

    Here’s how that might work: Sit quietly and take several slow breaths, thinking about nothing but your breathing. Then start thinking about all the things you have to be thankful for. Start small and work out from there— thankful for the knee that doesn’t hurt, thankful for a roof over your head and a heat-pump (or air conditioner) that works. Whenever a dark or troubling thought barges into your mind, just say “Thank you very much, we will think about that later” and put it in your Think-About-It-Later Can. (And put a lid on the Can!) Get calm, get thankful . . . if possible get peaceful, maybe even joyful,  and then start painting. The painting process is not there to GET you happy, the painting is happening because you ARE happy. 

    BE the art— get an “A” in life FIRST, then create the art.

    Just a thought. Give it a try.

    What do you think?

    Happy Painting (Really!)


  • May 19, 2021 2:25 PM | Dan Nelson


    The best part about being an artist is, quite simply-- BEING an Artist! It is the joy of taking two hands connected to one mind, grabbing a blank paper or canvas and in a matter of minutes, hours, or days turning it into a thing of intrinsic Beauty— or authentic IS-ness, if you want to be a little more philosophically neutral— a “thing” that has never existed before.

    Many people now live and work in a world dominated by ones and zeros and glowing screens, not creating anything tangible. I have concerns about the effect that is having on their souls. 

    So hooray for us Artists! (English majors put down your red pens; I know when I get improper! :-) We get to make STUFF! Real STUFF! AND . . .  it's possible that-- with a little luck-- some of the stuff we make will last 4 or 5 hundred years! Wow! 

    Artists are operating at one of the most fundamental levels of what it means to be human: the capacity to make stuff. I think we all know how that feels: there is a peculiar kind of satisfaction that comes when we are done making something. Hang on now!— I know we all get hung up on whether it’s a “good-enough-stuff”, but that’s a subject for another time. Even if every part of what we make is not up to our lofty standard of perfection, there is a sense of wholeness gained simply in the act of trying.  

    I think that’s why most people make art . . . and I think it’s the main reason most people should make art. 

    At the end of every art project we should ask ourselves the question: 

    “But did I enjoy making it?

    If yes, then that piece of art is GOOD ENOUGH

    Watch out! Competitions can be a little dangerous in this regard. If you are making art in order to WIN, I’m not sure you’ve really got the idea. The same is true for selling art. I’ve paid my bills by selling art for many years and I readily recognize that I am the exception, not the rule. The real reason I have been able to do that is that, by some quirk of personality, the pressure to “sell” has not eclipsed my joy in the simple act of creating. It’s still more fun than work. (Though it’s taken a lot of “work” to get to that point!)

    So AIM FOR JOY. Not winning, not selling . . . Those might be a cherry on top, but the whole sundae is the sheer act of creating . . . PERIOD.

    Believe me, we’re all in this together.

    Hope that helps. 

    Happy Painting!


  • May 06, 2021 5:38 PM | Dan Nelson


         Having a hard time just getting around to your art?  Welcome to the human race! We are all pulled in so many directions, it’s really hard to make time to do the stuff you really WANT to do. Here’s a little tip that has helped me get over this hurdle—

          Let me use an analogy from a non-art part of my life— I’m a fairly serious musician; I play several instruments and TRY to practice them every day. I don’t reach that lofty goal, but having the goal gets me closer than not. Anyway— here’s the tip: CAN THE CASE! I never keep any of my instruments in their cases. My instruments hang on the walls, sit on shelves, stand on stands . . . so that ANY time I’m strolling though the den I can pick one up and practice for 4 or 5 minutes. By-the-way— On a related note: some of the most productive practicing we do (of any skill) can happen in the first 5 minutes. So don’t turn up your nose at such a scanty session.


       I know that might not work for oil or acrylic painting— My oil palette stays in the freezer, so it takes a good 20 minutes for that to thaw out, and acrylics would be bone-dry if you left them out, but sketchbooks with pencils, pens, pastels, watercolors and gauche are ready to go ANYTIME. 

         I have sketchbooks scattered everywhere— One in my car, one in my wife’s, one on the coffee table, one in the top drawer of the cabinet in the front hall, et cetera. Oh-- and by the way, most of them are spiral-bound and already have pencils, pens & brushes stuck in the spiral. Voi la! Instant ART kit!

         I don’t have to wait ’til I’m in the mood, I don’t to go through a big production unpacking and setting up. Just grab and go! 


         I’m assuming you own a smart phone. Just get in the habit of SHOOTING anything and everything that strikes your fancy— the way a shadow falls on a wall, a close-up of a leaf, a close-up of your shoe laces, even somebody else’s painting! (You don’t have to COPY it, but if you do, give credit . . . and don’t enter in into a competition.) Next time you have a moment— open your phone's picture gallery and start flipping. 

         One more tip in this category— I’ve heard of artists having “Blank Canvas Paralysis”. I know I should be really empathetic here and say, “Yeah, it happens to everybody.” But it doesn’t. I’ve never had it. So all empathy aside, let me give you ONE simple tip for overcoming this one: START 3, 4, OR 5 SMALL PAINTINGS ALL AT THE SAME TIME. One canvas might intimidate you; a whole row of (little) ones won’t, because you will perceive in one sweeping glance that each canvas is NOT ALL THAT IMPORTANT— which is one of the main sources of this paralysis. 


         These two impulses are universal: the urge to compare yourself to others, and the desire to create a MASTERPIECE. Both of them are counterproductive. Derive INSPIRATION from other people’s art, but not INTIMIDATION. You are unique. NOBODY can do what you do. If God had wanted to to be Michelangelo, he would have made you him . . . (And you’d have been dead for 457 years now. Way to go! You’ve still got time to catch up!)

         The “Gotta-Mayka-Masterpiece” pressure is just that: PRESSURE! Try this: just do a “nice little painting”. Honestly, your chances of actually doing a masterpiece just increased.

    That’s enough for now. What tips have YOU learned for jump-starting your art-making life? Share them here. I look forward to hearing from you.

    Til then— Happy Painting!


  • April 30, 2021 4:48 PM | Dan Nelson

    Broad segments of the art community assert that self-expression is the essence of making art. Many in that same community would say that creativity is the second-most important element in art, and that the least valuable aspect of art-making is the apprehension and demonstration of skill. These are views you are likely to encounter if you hang out in any university art department.

    If you agree with those sentiments, I'm not going to try to change your mind. But I have a lot of friends who are doing art, and I want my friends to flourish. For this reason, I am proposing a view contrary to the one I have just described.

    These three values are, indeed, fundamental in the making of art, but I think our art-making life will go better if we completely reverse the order that I have just stated. In other words, I believe expressing yourself in your art adds a teeny-weeny little bit of value to your life, exercising creativity benefits you a little more than that, but developing real artistic skill benefits you most of all.

    Of course one might argue that the whole purpose of art-making is NOT necessarily to benefit the artist, and I could be arm-wrestled into accepting such a proposal, but I am limiting the scope of this writing to that narrow band of experience: “How much good does making art do ME?”

    The bottom line is this— Doing something well makes you feel good.

    Expressing yourself . . . not so much. I can think of several moments in my 41-year-long happy marriage to Nancy when I wish I had NOT expressed myself! It definitely did not make me “feel good” when it was all over. “Let it all out” is good advice sometimes . . . but if you have tendencies toward being a serial killer, umm . . . we all would appreciate you NOT letting it all out.

    I think human beings are hard-wired to make stuff . . . and to make stuff as good as we possibly can.  

    Make good stuff, feel good feelings.

    That’s all “Doctor Dan” has to say today: Do two paintings and call me in the morning. I’m trying to get better all the time. I know a lot of you are, too. And it’s more fun to do it in community. Thanks for being a part of mine.

    Let me know how it goes. Leave a comment here.

    Happy Painting!


  • April 14, 2021 11:39 AM | Dan Nelson

    Here is a  recipe for progress as a painter:

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    10-parts------“WOW! I’M AWESOME!”

    For every 1-part------ “RATS! THAT SUCKS!”

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    The reason I mention this is because I have taught hundreds of students over the years, and I’m afraid the great majority of them get this backwards.

    We all struggle with that nasty inner-voice of condemnation. Some of us were aided in this struggle by parents who didn’t know how to affirm because they had never been adequately affirmed. (Or else they were just jerky parents, but I digress.)

    I’m talking about how you talk to yourself when you’re painting. Sure, every once in awhile you learn a good hard lesson, and it's appropriate to say, “Whoops! I make that mistake a lot.” But in between every one of those inner-rebukes there should be about NINE “Hey! That looks pretty good!”

    Frankly, 40 years after the infusion of "Oprah-ism" into our culture, I'm still amazed there are so many people who haven't got the memo: PEOPLE PERFORM BETTER WITH ENCOURAGEMENT.

    Drill sergeants have their place. IT'S IN THE MARINES.

    In all the rest of life, that's just not the way healthy humans operate.

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    Forgive me while I vent for a minute-- If you have EVER had one of those art teachers who belittles, humiliates, shames, or harshly criticizes their students . . . NEVER TAKE A CLASS FROM THEM AGAIN! And more than that-- tell everybody else NOT to take a class from them. They are blight on the industry. If they have to starve for a little while before they shape up, so be it.

    Okay, vent finished. I fell better already. Send me your invoice.

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    Let me flesh this out by walking you through the typical painting session of a typical painter :


    UNHEALTHY RESPONSE: O, crap! I only have 50 minutes to paint!

    HEALTHY RESPONSE: Yay! I have a little time to paint!

    2. SET UP EASEL-- have trouble getting one leg set up right.

    UNHEALTHY RESPONSE: I hate this stupid easel! It never works!

    HEALTHY RESPONSE: Next time I get this out, I'll try to remember my screwdriver.

    3. PUT PAINTS ON PALETTE-- missing one color.

    UNHEALTHY RESPONSE: --*!#+¡£¢§¶!!!-- Now I can't paint! I'm missing one color!

    HEALTHY RESPONSE: Hmm . . . wonder what I can do with a 'limited palette'?

    4. START TO SKETCH-- mess up and draw poorly.

    UNHEALTHY RESPONSE: --*!#+¡£¢§¶!!!-- I'm such a lousy artist! I can never draw things   right!

    HEALTHY RESPONSE: Hmm . . . maybe if I slow down . . . try again . . .  maybe trace a        little, or use a grid . . .

    5. START MIXING COLOR-- Accidentally pick up too much of one color.

    UNHEALTHY RESPONSE: --*!#+¡£¢§¶!!!-- See!? I always do that! I'm terrible at mixing           colors!

    HEALTHY RESPONSE: Hum a bit of your favorite tune. Wipe off brush, mix again.

    I know that might be a little bit harsh . . . but I have taught thousands of students over the years, and in every single class I witness at least a couple of those UNHEALTHY RESPONSES. (More than a couple. I'm being generous.)

    So it's time I unveil to the world (trumpet fanfare!) Dan Nelson's #1 LAW OF PAINTING:

    BE NICE TO YOURSELF!!!! And the #1 COROLLARY to the #1 LAW:


    Life is short. Enjoy the process. Exorcize bad parenting (if that's what you had); forgive them, and move on. Then exorcize bad self-talk habits. Forgive yourself and move on.

    I always close my posts with these words: Happy Painting! And this time I really mean it--

    Happy Painting!


  • April 09, 2021 8:12 AM | Dan Nelson

    I know not everyone grew up the way I did. To put it bluntly, we were poor. Thankfully, we didn’t realize it, and our parents taught us how to hold our heads up, behave, and be thankful. One trait it engendered in me, however, is a life-long tendency to skimp. That can be a good impulse in much of life . . . but it's not so good when you sit down to paint. My years of observation as a teacher has shown me that I’m not the only one with this tendency.

    I heard a smart teacher say once, "You can't paint and save money at the same time!" That is really true.

    When you set up your oil palette, you put just the tiniest dab of paint possible for each color? Do you use a tiny little cup for your Brush Cleaning Solution? Do you buy small tubes of paint, cheap paint, and small brushes? Believe it or not, ALL of those habits are actually COSTING you money... and making you a WORSE PAINTER at the same time!


    1) You want to do good artwork

    2) You don't want to waste money.

    HERE, then, are some money saving tips you might not have thought of, yet --


    - Put reasonably large dollops of paint on your palette -- from the size of a Hershey's Kiss up to half a golf ball. ***When you are finished painting, put your palette in the freezer. If you know you're not going to paint for more than a week, put Saran wrap on the paints. A tiny pile of paint will make you overly cautious about using some of that color!

    - Use a LARGE (at least a pint, preferably quart-size) canister for your Gamsol / Turpenoid WITH A LID. Remember: the oil pigments will settle to the bottom of your cleaning solution, so you can use the Solution over and over. If you want, you can periodically collect the gunk at the bottom of your rinse can and put it into new paint tubes for your own "Torrit Gray". Do NOT use "odorless paint thinner," however-- It will eat your synthetic brushes and cause the fibers to curl.


    - Cheap paint is usually expensive because it has LESS PIGMENT in it, so you have to use a lot more to achieve the desired effect.

    - Buy Titanium instead of Zinc white. Zion is weaker, so you just have to use more. Get Titanium and adjust accordingly.

    (If you're an oil painter, you might want to try fast-drying Alkyd oil for your Titanium.)

    - Speaking of Titanium -- put out several small dollops of white instead of one huge pile. That way, you're less likely to cross-contaminate each pile with the wrong color.

    - Good quality brushes tend to last a lot longer, so cheap brushes might be more expensive than you think.

    - If you think you can save money by stretching your own canvasses, think again; you can't touch the efficiency of a factory-stretching process.


    - A Masterson Stay-Wet Palette will pay for itself in ONE painting. Get one and follow the instructions.

    - In addition to that - - you already know to have spray bottle handy, right? Good. I thought so.

    Well, that's enough for now. What have YOU found that saves you money... And still let's you do good paintings? Agfa with us here.

    In the meantime,

    Keep On Painting!


  • April 01, 2021 11:26 AM | Dan Nelson

    Having a hard time figuring out what to paint next? 

    Believe it or not, “Painting whatever you want” might be hurting your creativity. 

    Most people work best within some kind of boundary. Doing “whatever you want” sounds good . . . but it can easily lead to the paralysis of “Where in the world do I start?” Believe it or not, having something to push against usually makes us more creative, not less. 

    The “12-bar blues” always follow the exact same basic chord pattern:  1  1  1  1,  4  4  1  1,  5  4  1  1.  In classical music, the Symphony, the Sonata, the Rondo and Concerto all follow a carefully subscribed form . . . And no one would say such music lacks creativity.

    A lot of poetry is the same way— Haiku poetry all has the same pattern . . . or it’s not Haiku. A Shakespearian sonnet always has the rhyming pattern: ABBA, ABBA, CDC, DEE. 

    Coming down a few notches, everybody recognizes a limerick; the rhyming pattern is always AABBA—

    There once were two cats of Kilkenny,

    Each thought there was one cat too many,

    So they fought and they fit,

    And they scratched and they bit,

    Til Instead of two cats, there weren’t any.

    (There ya go! Not a day made that aint better with a little limerick in it!)

    All these “rules”— rather than stifling creativity— actually help engender it. When we are forced to work within some kind of restriction, our creativity actually increases. I experienced this many times during my years as an illustrator. The ad agency would tell me WHAT to paint. I never squawked “Hey! you’re squelching my creativity!” Their assignments actually caused me to dig deep and come up with something better than they expected.

    Want a good start to your next painting? Give yourself some restrictions. 

    Some of us in FALC did this near the beginning of the lockdown— The call went out: “Paint something in your kitchen.” or “Paint something you can see from your window.” Most people would think that kind of thing limits our creativity— quite the opposite is true; pushing against a barrier opens us up to new possibilities. “Paint something in the world” is usually not very helpful.

    There are many other categories of restriction for painters, of course— Try using a “Limited Palette.” A classic version of is this from Anders Zorn, about a hundred years ago: Cad Red Light, Ivory Black, Titanium White and Yellow Ochre. (Here’s a pretty good article on that: https://givemezorn.wordpress.com/2018/02/06/color-mixing-with-the-zorn-palette/)

    Try limiting yourself to paintings no larger than 4 x 5-inches for a month . . .  or do nothing but a palette knife for a couple weeks, or paint nothing but old socks! You get the idea— limitations spark creativity.

    If you can’t find any others, I’ll give you one right now: STOP wherever you are right now. Force yourself to do a sketch of something within 6 feet of your body. Do that once a day for a week. Then take one of your sketches, and develop it into a painting. 

    Let us know know it goes!

    So what ideas do you have to “limit” your art and spark creativity? 

    Happy painting.


  • March 18, 2021 3:50 PM | Dan Nelson

    Are You A Goal-Setter or a Process-or? 

    If you promise not to tell, I’m going to tell you one of the dark little secrets of my life:  ( S h h h ! )  

                                                                                   —        I         D    O    N  ’  T        S   E   T        G   O    A    L    S    .          —

    TRIED lots of times, but never succeeded. I am a complete and utter failure as a Goal-Setter.

    The only reason this might matter is I think that I might not be the only one.

    For me, this is one of the mysteries of the life-coach / motivational speaker / business advisor culture. Virtually every “expert” I have ever listened to told me that I was supposed to set goals— 10-year goals, 5-year goals, 12-month, 6-month, two-week goals . . . you know the drill. I’m always sitting there in the audience trying to look really small so no-one will ask me, “So Dan— What are your 10-year goals?”  (“Um . . . To be alive??”)

    Okay . . . the truth is I NO LONGER worry about the fact that I’m a goal-setting wash-out. Why? because contrary to the prominent motivational narrative— I have discovered that not all successful people set goals. There is a whole alternative way to live. It’s what I call LIVING BY PROCESS

    Here’s an example from my youthful self: I ran track in high school and college. I was a pretty-good small-college distance runner. Won a few races; lost a bunch. But I never “set a goal” to run a 4-minute mile. I’m really glad I didn’t, because, frankly, I now know a 4-minute mile was never in me, no matter how hard I might have trained. But my “goal”—if you want to call it that— was to do as hard a workout TODAY as I could . . . and then do it again the NEXT DAY, and then the day after that, and so on. So I eventually ran a mile in 4 minutes and 20 seconds. Not bad. Not a goal. Just the result of PROCESS.

    Pretty much my whole life has followed this pattern. I don’t have a goal to play trumpet in the North Carolina Symphony, I just hope to have a good practice TODAY . . . if i can squeeze it in. So I’m a pretty-good non-NC Symphony trumpet player. 

    What does this have to do with art? Well, nothing, if you’re wired to be a goal-setter. So if you are, go join one of those “30 paintings in 30 days” Facebook groups, or something. ALL the life-coaches in the world will cheer you on. 

    But some of you are like me, and some of you might need encouragement to be a PROCESS PAINTER. Just paint today. Or TRY to, anyway. And then try to paint again tomorrow. If you make it your “GOAL” to paint every day, you will fail at some point, then you’ll feel like a failure. So forget the Goal. Just paint. Because that’s real life. It’s a process. 

    The Tortoise and the Hare story had the same lesson: Process away. And admire all those dazzling goal-setting hares. 

    Til you pass ‘em.

    Happy (Process) Painting!

    So what do you think? 


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